Another Feedback on Miss Patricia Evangelista's "The Montalvan morality"

Dear Editor,

This letter is a reaction to Miss Patricia Evangelista's latest article in her Method to Madness column, "The Montalvan morality"(PDI, Sunday, October 16, 2010, page A15). I understand her article is a reaction to Antonio J. Montalvan II's October 11, 2010 column-article.

Owing to Miss Evangelista's rhetorical expertise and writing prowess, I fear that her readers would easily come to a rash judgment and thinking: It is necessary and inevitable to employ contraception to manage the population.

A question came to my mind: Is it possible to manage the population without resorting to or employing contraception? I pondered on this question for some time and have come to the conclusion that Yes, it is possible!

In order to manage population, specifically the Philippine population, without using contraception as a public policy, I believe, the following conditions should be present:

1. PEOPLE ARE RESOURCES, NOT BURDENS. Our political leaders and policy-makers ought to view people as potential resources, not just short-term burdens. Instead of looking at people as consumers of resources and producers of wastes, they should be looked upon as potential producers of ideas and problem-solvers of the many mysteries plaguing humanity's existence. Instead of seeing mouths to be fed, they should be seen as pairs of hands that could produce products and services, people with cash-laden wallets that would fill shopping malls after shopping malls. Of course, in order for people to be the country's assets, they should be harnessed through well-crafted public education curricula and well-trained, well-paid teachers. Public funds should channeled to improving public education infrastructures and programs. Let us fight corruption in the public offices so that tax-payers' money are not funneled to unscrupulous individuals but to public education!

Objectors to this idea might counteract that there is not enough public funds for the current and fast-growing population size, population should be reduced to a manageable level. To this objection I will respond:

It is not the size of the population that should be the issue, there are countries who have populations bigger than the Philippines who are able to provide enough public goods and services. Instead, our leaders should wrack their brains to come up with policy strategies that would attract more and increasing foreign direct investments to the country, increase tax collection and implement a more equitable distribution of material wealth.

2. NATURE AND MEANING OF HUMAN SEXUALITY. Our political leaders and policy-makers should foster the true, the correct, the sustainable understanding of the nature and meaning of human sexuality. Through public education and mass-media, the following thinking should be made normal and common: "An individual views and enters into a sexual relationship because she or he is consciously willing to become a parent".

It is true that sex should be viewed as beyond procreation; that there is another meaning to sex. That other meaning is personal unity, partnership, communion. But for this other meaning to really exist and to be unmistakably experienced, the intimate connection of sex to procreation must not be artificially, synthetically cut. Only then, when the possibility of procreation is willingly accepted, that the other meaning of sex will be a reality.

3. INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY IS A PUBLIC MENACE. Before the advent of Internet technology, indulgence to pornography was confined to a few. Now, it is accessible to almost anyone, regardless of age, status, financial capacity, etc! Looking at pornography ought to be viewed as a debilitating addiction, similar to drug addiction. If our public leaders are deeply concerned for the widespread access to dangerous drugs, they also ought to include easy access to Internet pornography as one of the public menace.

Studies have shown that boys and men are more susceptible to be hooked to Internet pornography than girls and women. Our leaders should concede to the proposition that Internet pornography could cook the minds of the male half of the population and come to see the female half of the population as just objects, toys, tools for sexual pleasure. In order to minimize the objectification of girls and women, there ought to be policies that curb the availability of printed pornography in public places and Internet.

4. WOMEN SHOULD REIN MEN, NOT SPOIL THEM. Girls and women ought to be aware that they are a very important influence in guiding boys and men towards chivalry and responsible fatherhood. Our public leaders, specially our women political leaders, should foster the mentality that modesty is better than exhibitionism. Through modesty, ladies could attract gentlemen, willing to respect them as persons with dignity. Through showing too much skin, ladies could attract brutes, filled with the thought: 'girls are just toys'.

Moreover, our leaders ought to foster the concept: women ought to realize that they can keep a true and honest man, as a life-partner, if they do not give-in to the low and perverted cravings of men. Women should not give-in to the lustful desires of their men and resort to the use of artificial contraception to provide an apparent protection from unwanted consequences. Through the actual use of contraception, women, without them being aware of it, willingly turn themselves into willing toys and objects of pleasure for their partners. Women's dignity as a person is not protected by contraception, rather, they are automatically turned into objects and turn their partners into brutes without reason.

To conclude, these are the four (4) suggested conditions, I believe, should be present in Philippine society, in order to manage population without resorting to contraception. I must concede that these are very, very tall orders! These are, indeed, unattainable ideals. But as long as there is an honest-to-goodness effort-exerted and resources-employed, on the part of our political leaders and policy-makers, to move towards achieving these conditions, contraception-free population management will produce effective, long-lasting and sustainable results.

In lieu of population policies dependent on contraception, strategies such as improving all forms of public transportation to encourage people to upgrade existing urban centers or build more urban centers in the country-side will gain public attention, acceptability and feasibility. This could decongest current urban centers like Metro Manila and Cebu. A strategy of population redistribution will be more possible.

Author's Note:
This feedback was sent as letter to the editor and is awaiting Philippine Daily Inquirer's (PDI) response. PDI has the prerogative to publish or not to publish this feedback in printed form. The author respects whatever will be PDI's decision.

Feedback on Miss Patricia Evangelista's "The Montalvan morality"

Dear Miss Patricia Evangelista,

I am very impressed by your latest PDI article, "The Montalvan morality" (Sunday, October 17, 2010, page A15). I understand the article is a reaction to Antonio J. Montalvan's October 11, 2010 column-article. I must admit you write eloquently and persuasively.

Alongside my admiration and awe for your writing skill, is a deep concern and fear. Upon close scrutiny of your statements, I noticed so many terms used wrongly. I fear that readers of your article, equally impressed by your writing prowess, might be misinformed and misled.

I could see many instances, in your long article, demonstrating erroneous term usage. Since terms refer to concepts, your wrong use of terms also means wrong use of concepts.

One obvious instance is your claim in paragraph 14 (of the printed version): "...the Church itself supports natural contraception..." I am certain you are referring to the Church's endorsement and support of Natural Family Planning method or NFP. I wish to enlighten you that NFP must not be equated with natural contraception. The two terms are totally unrelated.

It is true, there is such a term as "natural contraception" and it refers to the "withdrawal method" or "coitus interruptus". It is a contraceptive method involving the withdrawal of the male sex organ during sexual intercourse so that ejaculation could take place outside the female sex organ. This method is also called "Onanism" referring to the Biblical figure, Onan, the second son of Judah and brother of Er, who scattered his seed on the soil to avoid fathering a child with his widowed sister-in-law, Tamar, whom he was required by tradition to take as wife and beget children to be declared as his brother Er's children. Onan resented and despised the traditional precept. God killed Onan, immediately after spilling the seed (cf. Genesis chapter 38)! Now, how can the Church endorse such a contraceptive method?

NFP is never a contraceptive method. Couples who practice this do not intervene nor block the natural process of procreation. There are neither artificial, synthetic instruments nor chemicals used. Performing the conjugal act during the infertile period of the wife should not be considered contraceptive. NFP couples are always open to the gift of life. They consider each child a gift and a responsibility they have to render an account to God later. NFP is more than a family planning method; it is a way of life, it requires a frame of mind that views human sexuality as a sacred reality, God's gift to humanity. Why not verify it for yourself? Ask around and interview a NFP couple or celebrity-couple Maricel and Anthony Pangilinan.

I will be analyzing your statements and hopefully send you the results with an elaborate explanation. But feel free to review your article and your understanding of the terms you used. You may have an impeccable writing skill, Miss Patricia, but your content may be full of conceptual errors.

Thank you for your time and more power to your career!

Author's Note:
This feedback was sent as letter to the editor and is awaiting Philippine Daily Inquirer's (PDI) response. PDI has the prerogative to publish or not to publish this feedback in printed form. The author respects PDI's decision.

Is Philippine Daily Inquirer (PDI) assisting in the propagation of a hedonistic Philippine society?

Is Philippine Daily Inquirer (PDI) assisting in the propagation of a hedonistic Philippine society?

I read Mr. Romy Aquino's published letter-to-the-editor ("Nature shows sex not merely for procreation", page A16, PDI, 4/12/10) and was particularly alarmed by his thesis statement: "... sex among human beings is mainly for pleasure and not for a 'higher purpose which is to procreate'".

Mr. Aquino elaborated further by enumerating five (5) "empirical evidences" to back-up his claim. But, I think, these are more "superficial, amateurish speculations" interpreting human sexuality's natural processes than "scientifically verifiable conclusions" valid as evidences.

Mr. Aquino erroneously equated "procreation" to "animal reproduction". PDI editors should be aware that human procreation is very different from animal reproduction. Since a human being is a unity of a material body and a spiritual soul, where each soul is uniquely created by an infinitely perfect spiritual being called God and is not a piece from the mother and father's souls, human procreation is a category of its own. We can say, when our parents procreate, God is always involve in each and every sexual act, even if, in some cases, it does not result in a new human being. Animal reproduction is purely material while procreation is both material and spiritual.

All of Mr. Aquino's arguments disregarded the spiritual dimension of human sexuality. We cannot properly explain human sexuality if the spiritual aspect is not also discussed. Human sexuality's spirituality could be gleaned from Christian anthropology and theology, not from popular, laical interpretations. Human beings have a spiritual calling to form communities through sincere mutual self-giving with each other as what happens in marriages; human sex is the essential bodily component of this calling while the marriage vows forms the other part.

I am very worried PDI, the most widely-read broadsheet, published Mr. Aquino's letter and read by the Filipino public. This might influence public opinion and contribute to mainstreaming the notion that "SEX IS JUST FOR PLEASURE"! Does PDI realizes it might be helping fortify the practice of snatching or conning rural young girls to be instruments of sexual pleasure in tourist resorts and other establishments?

I suggest PDI moderates closely publishing letters-to-the-editor and take careful look at the philosophy and ideology behind each and every letter. As they say, "ideas do have consequences".